Wednesday, January 07, 2009

The Week in Books 2009, No. 1

This week I read Abigail Thomas' short book "Thinking About Memoir," which is an interesting mix of the author's memories designed to inspire readers to tell their own stories. She notes "we are full of contradiction and conflict; we have played different roles at different times (or simultaneously); we have evolved out of many different selves. Writing memoir is one way to explore how you became the person you are. It's the story of how you got here from there...it's a good story." I think it's worthwhile to explore how you became who you are, and I also think good memoirs (emphasis on GOOD) make for good reading, but not all memoirs are interesting, because not all writers are honest enough or careful enough to write memoir.

At any rate, if you're interested in writing, "Thinking About Memoir" has a lot of interesting exercises that would be good for practice, or for unusual blog posts. I'm not sure I'm ready to write my memoir yet, but I do enjoy playing around with writing exercises, so perhaps I'll throw a few into the blog mix at some point.

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Christmas Highlights

I considered doing a post about how discouraged I am that Sarah screams all night long even though I stopped drinking caffeine and eating chocolate and dairy products. She is sweet most of the time, I just think she has colic at night. Yet another reason to wish I was a dolphin.

Instead of that downer post however, I decided to finally post some Christmas pictures for your perusal.
Sleeping Beauty (I think every parent of a little girl has a picture with that title)
The dining room table set for Christmas dinner

Jack, Josh and Hannah laughing at something
"I will share Daddy's baseball cards with you, Sesta!"
(Jack calls Sarah "Sesta" which is really sweet)
Hannah admiring the doll clothes my mom made for Hannah's new doll

Monday, January 05, 2009

Belated Resolutions Still Count

I find it difficult to start any new resolution-type situation on any day other than a Monday, plus this seems like a better time to start resolutions for me, as Christmas and Hannah's birthday are past, my family has gone home, and I really want to believe that Sarah will start getting the hang of sleeping at night sometime very, very soon. Thus, here are my resolutions for 2009:

SPIRITUAL:


Work on my prayer life

In the past few weeks I've gotten away from my prayer times with the children because of all the craziness of the end of pregnancy and new baby plus holidays, but I'd like to get back into that habit. I would also like to focus more on my personal prayer life, which I think may mean finding a different time to do my daily Bible reading and prayer time. I was encouraged by John Piper's recent post on Scriptures to encourage prayer.

Be organized for Sundays
I would really like for Sunday to be a day of rest for me, but honestly most weeks it's anything but restful. I've made some good changes in recent months that have helped, but my new goal is to get the house pretty clean on Friday and Saturday and have meals prepared or at least planned out in advance so I don't have to spend Sunday frantically searching for breakfasts and lunches (why do we always run out of everything unexpectedly on Sundays???) or spend a long time Sunday night preparing dinner. I'm also going to give myself permission to just sit still on Sundays and ignore the to do list, at least during the rare times the kids nap (they usually don't on Sundays) or after they go to bed.

FAMILY:

Keep up date nights
I'd like to keep having date nights once a week with Josh - I think it's a great time to re-connect and do something fun together. My goal is to plan more in advance for date nights, and to bar the door to all intruders, including but not limited to vacuum salesmen.

Be cheerful when Josh gets home
I love being at home with my children, and I count it a privilege that I'm able to be the one to teach and nurture them and watch them grow and develop day to day. The problem is, a lot of times I'm also trying to cram the day with tons of other things that only serve to make me stressed and tired. I think I need to reorder some priorities and shift some of my expectations of what I can accomplish so that I can be cheerful and have some energy left when Josh gets home. I want him to enjoy coming home, I want him to know that I appreciate being able to be home with the kids and I want to have time at the end of the day to enjoy being with my husband.

Work on being more patient and consistent with the children
I think especially now that we have a new baby, I need to take extra care to focus on and nurture the older two kids. I have to really be mindful of being patient and consistent in my expectations and follow-through with them, especially when I'm tired, because it's not my natural tendency.


PERSONAL:

Eat well, exercise faithfully (not fanatically)
I'm pleasantly surprised to find myself bouncing back from the third pregnancy quickly, in spite of all the holiday junk I ate in the two weeks since I had the baby. I'd like to be a little more mindful of the nutrition of what I eat. Since my policy is to eat when I'm hungry while I'm nursing it might as well be healthy food I'm packing away. I'd also like to exercise regularly, but not with the fanatical all or nothing type zeal I usually apply to fitness. I tend to like to put in a good hour or more of exercise, and if I don't have time for that, I don't do it at all, but I'd like to be more the type of person who exercises a little if I only have a little time, or more if I have more time. Doesn't that sound reasonable? Like the kind of thing a 30 year old would do? I'm really not someone who excels at moderation, so this might take some work for me, even though I have been 30 for 26 days now.

Get the photo album/baby book/scrapbook thing caught up
I think I've mentioned before that Jack doesn't have his baby book yet. I did a book of Hannah's first year, and since then have done absolutely nothing other than get pictures printed out. I really, seriously, totally do intend to get Hannah's book caught up, get Jack's started and caught up, and keep Sarah's current. I think to do that I'll need to set aside a time each week to pull out some of the pictures, get them organized, and work on a few pages at a time, rather than trying to have gobs of stuff out all over my already clutter-prone desk for months on end.

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I think that's a sufficient number of goals/resolutions for now. How about you? Do you make resolutions at the New Year? Do you ever keep them?

Friday, January 02, 2009

Happy Birthday Hannah!

Hannah on her birth day (notice the dark hair, for those that wondered about Sarah not being born blonde!)
Now a big girl of three years old!

Today Hannah is three years old, and is such a fun and delightful person. Hannah is a great helper to me, and lifts my spirits with her hilarious repartee all day long. She is independent and opinionated, but also sweet and getting more and more interested in spiritual things, which is humbling and challenging for us as parents. We are blessed to have such a wonderful oldest daughter and look forward to seeing what this year holds for her!

Happy Birthday Hannah!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Happy New Year's Eve

I had a list of things to blog about this week, but all have been overwhelmed by baby care and spending time with my mom while she's here. Maybe I'll get to it next week. Meanwhile, baby care is a lot more fun (at least when it happens during the day!).

In the picture above, Sarah was the same age as Hannah in this picture, and they are wearing the same outfit - you can see that Sarah is bigger than Hannah was at that age, and also I think more alert. Sarah holds her head up and looks around, grabs for things with her hands and even pushes her pacifier back in her mouth! Not bad for 11 days old, I think.

Today Mom and I took the kids out for some errands, and wow, it's a lot crazier with three kids than with two! On a totally unrelated note, we saw a woman wearing a full length mink coat shopping in Costco. It seemed a little incongruous, but I'm sure it kept her warmer than I was (I foolishly just wore the fleece from my North Face without the shell, and it was like 3 degrees out!)!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

The Week in Books 2008, No. 52

Up front, let me just say that "A Mom Just Like You" by Vickie Farris is not about homeschooling, except in passing, and chances are Vickie Farris is not a mom just like you. The book is actually more like Mrs. Farris' memoir of her life as a mother, and as such was really interesting and encouraging. I love to hear/read about the choices people make and how they live their lives when they make those choices out of a particular philosophy or conviction rather than just doing whatever everyone else is doing.

Some of the most encouraging parts of the book were Mrs. Farris' humility in identifying which parts of her family's life are based on Scripture and which parts just work for them, but need not be normative for everyone. For example, in spite of her husband's high profile as a homeschool activist, she doesn't think every family is called to homeschool, or to do school the way she does, and so forth.

Another encouraging facet of the book was Mrs. Farris' willingness to disclose the struggles and questions she has had along the way. Often I think mothers are reluctant to admit to having to wrestle with issues because they fear it will put a bad name on motherhood, but sometimes that comes at the expense of discouraging other moms. I found it refreshing to see that even a SuperMom like Mrs. Farris has really had to work through her convictions and even though her struggles are vastly different from my own it was helpful to see how God has blessed her family and caused her to grow spiritually through her role as a mother.

I would recommend this book if you find personal memoirs interesting, and if you're not expecting a homeschool manifesto or manual.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Raining and Pouring

In case things weren't hectic enough, we spent this afternoon at the ER after Hannah decided to do a flying leap off of her bedside table with disastrous results. There really isn't anything like walking into your child's room to see sheets of blood pouring out of her head to freak a mama out. As it turned out, she is fine, and just has a one centimeter long laceration on the back of her head.

To further liven things up, while we were waiting in triage, Sarah had a diaper blow out the likes of which I have never seen (how does such a small baby poop up to her ARMS?!?!?) and of course I didn't have a spare outfit for her, so she spent the rest of the visit naked except for her diaper and blanket. As we were being released, the nurse was looking at the baby, and probably thinking to herself, "Should we let this woman go home with this bleeding toddler and naked newborn?"

We're thankful that Hannah is ok, and hoping we can stay away from the hospital for a while now!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Quick Update

We had a nice Christmas with my family (above: my brother Thomas holding Hannah, Josh, my mom holding five day old Sarah, me, my dad holding Jack) and Josh's parents. Other than overdoing it with the preparations, I've been fine, just having trouble getting back into a groove with the daily schedule, so I've been taking a break from the computer. I'll post more pictures and updates later!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

The Week in Books 2008, No. 51

At long last I got my turn to read "The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society" - I had been number 100 and something on the wait list! The book is popular for good reason. Using an unusual format of letters to and from an author and residents of the island of Guernsey in the immediate aftermath of World War II, the book features compelling characters, a good story, and a lot of information about how the war affected the Channel Islands. I particularly enjoyed the letter format, because it seems to be a format that is dying out in real life. People express themselves differently in a written letter than they do in an email or a Facebook comment, and I wish more people still communicated that way. The main character of the book learns so much about the residents of the island by the way they correspond, and I think the device is a particularly effective means of telling the story, though it may take you a while to get used to the lack of straight narrative.

"Things We Wish We'd Known" is a collection of short essays by veteran homeschoolers about...wait for it...things they wish they had known when they started homeschooling. Unfortunately, the brevity of the essays keeps most of them from being very helpful. The gist of about 90% of the essays is "you don't have to do public school at home when you're homeschooling." It was mildly interesting to read about the obstacles people faced in the early years of homeschooling, mostly because I remember some of those issues from the 4 years my brother and I were homeschooled in the early 1990s. I think there are probably many much more useful books about homeschooling, that would likely be more applicable to the challenges homeschoolers deal with now. The book is not terrible, I'm just not convinced it's worth a read if you really want to dig into this topic.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

All Wrapped Up

Friday night after the kids went to bed (and before I went into labor!) I wrapped presents for those who will be opening presents with us on Christmas day. I think of gifts as part of the decorating scheme at Christmas, so I like to make them special and pretty. Here are my gift wrapping thoughts:

1. Save wrapping paper.
Every year I save any wrapping paper I get that still looks nice, as well as nearly all the ribbon on packages (I don't generally save the big plastic 1908s type bows, just nice ribbon). That way, all of the packages under our tree look different. I'm not big on having all the presents share the same type of wrapping. At after Christmas sales I sometimes get a roll of paper to save for the next year, but even then I only use it on one or two things, so it's not overkill.

2. Use past prime wrapping paper on kids' gifts so they can rip it.
Paper that has been in rotation a few years, no matter how awesome it was at first, will be a little the worse for wear. I use that type of paper on the kids' gifts, so they still look nice under the tree but I don't mind if we throw that paper out this year. I do still put nice ribbon and beads or ornaments on the kids' packages, because those don't rip and can be saved, plus they make the package look nice even if the paper is a little worn around the edges or has a tape mark on it somewhere.

3. Always use nice ribbon, and don't be skimpy with it.
You can get great wired ribbon for 90% off at after Christmas sales too, which makes it economical, as does saving it from year to year. The wired ribbon keeps well, because you can just remake the bows and fluff them up so they look new. If I'm going to use ribbon on a package, I generally use an entire spool. That way I can make a great bow, plus have enough to wrap the package in both directions. If you're re-using ribbon, be sure to re-cut the notches at the ends because otherwise they might look frayed instead of crisp and pretty.

4. Add interesting things to packages.
This year my packages almost all have beaded picks in the bows, but some years I put in bells or gold-painted pinecones or ornaments, depending on what I have that matches the paper and ribbon I'm using. Again, those 90% off after Christmas sales are a good place to stock up. I find that a lot of times the decorating stuff I would not use in regular decorating like wreaths and garlands looks great on packages - you can get away with more glittery things and odd colors on a present and it doesn't have to match your whole decorating scheme.

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I hope you all have a lovely Christmas full of joy and celebration of Jesus' birth!

Monday, December 22, 2008

Sweet Sarah

Smiling
I look really haggard here, but I never got to sleep after she was born, so I was really tired!
My dad with Sarah
My mom with Sarah
Hannah meeting Sarah
My mom with Hannah and Sarah
Josh with Sarah at home
Jack is finally warming up to Sarah. This afternoon he kissed her and pointed out all of her facial features (he is pointing out her nose in the picture), as well as bringing her a pacifier when she cried. Of course, when she spit out the pacifier, he tried it out too! Hey, at least he's sharing (germs anyway!).

I'm glad to be home, but am really tired, so it may take me a while to catch up. I hope you're all enjoying Christmas week!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

She's here!

The hospital has blocked Facebook (?!?!?) but I wanted to make a quick post to let you all know that Sarah has arrived at long last! I don't have any pictures yet, but as soon as I get some I will post them.

Last night at 10:07 I had a contraction that seemed like a little more than a Braxton-Hicks. I had another one at 10:24. I got up and had some show/plug action (if you don't know what that is, don't worry about it, this being a family blog I won't go into details!) so I went to the computer to look that up and had another contraction about 10:40. I found online that I might go into labor in the next few days, and might have stronger Braxton-Hicks contractions than before, so I went back to bed.

By 11:10 or so I was having contractions every 7ish minutes and couldn't handle them well in bed, plus I was pretty sure they were labor, so I got up and got a few more things for my bag, then headed downstairs to call my doula. Josh had fallen asleep on the couch so I woke him up (he woke up with this huge amazing LEAP off of the couch that would have been a lot funnier had I not been in labor). By the time I called Carol my doula, I was sure I was in labor, so we also called Josh's mom to come over and the doctor to let her know we were on our way to the hospital.

We left for the hospital at around 12:45 or so and got there around 1:15. At that point, I was still sort of thinking they might send us home as a false alarm, but when I got to triage at 1:30 I was at 5cm so we walked down the hall to my room. Carol the doula met us at the room at 1:45 and from that point on, all I had was solid peaking contractions. Seriously, there was not a moment of breath in between, it was just an insane ramp up. At 2:15 my water broke and the baby came down so fast I fell to the bed on my side to try to cope and was at 10 cm. So if you're keeping score, I went from 5cm and 75% effaced to complete in about 45 minutes or less. Good thing I hadn't planned to have any drugs because there is no way I'd have gotten an epidural in time. Sadly I also didn't have time to get in the birth tub, so I still don't know how that is.

Anyway, the doctor had not yet arrived at the hospital, so they had to call the "doc in the box" who is a newbie doctor who is always on hand in the maternity suites. That doctor did not arrive in my room for 15 long long long minutes that I had to try not to push during. I thought I was going to die if I didn't start pushing soon. Thank goodness I had Carol there to keep my focus. Once the doc in the box got there, I pushed twice and she was born. She had her arm up by her face and her elbow out, which, for the uninitiated, means it was a lot harder to deal with pushing, but still I had no tears or stitches at all! Hooray! She was born at 2:36am, 20 inches long, and weighing 8 pounds, 7 ounces. She has a ton of dark hair and a little dimple in her chin and is totally adorable.

Rebecca S. was the one who guessed Dec 20 for Sarah's birthday, so many congratulations to her on her guessing ability. Ainsley guessed the 19th, which was close, but actually guessed the correct birth weight! Bravo to you both, you win a virtual Ding How.

I'm beginning to come down off of my post-birth high and finally got my breakfast, so I think I'll take a well-deserved nap now. More pictures and news will follow later!

Friday, December 19, 2008

Very Quick Takes

1. I am still pregnant.
'Nuff said.

2. I ran nearly a whole cycle of laundry before realizing that a) I had not closed the lid to the washer and b) I had not actually put any clothes in the washer.
As Allison said on The Biggest Loser finale, "The baby took my brain."

3. I am glad Vicky didn't win The Biggest Loser, even if she is from Houma Louisiana, which is where one of my friends from Camp grew up.
Hi Blair!

4. I have a crick in my neck, even though "crick" sounds like what a backwoods person would call a "creek" and there is not a small body of moving water flowing through my neck, it just hurts because I slept on it funny.
I've been walking around with my hand on my neck to avoid paralyzing myself, so Jack has been imitating me and walking around with his hand on his neck too.

5. If you ever have some icky health food brownies that taste kind of like vaguely chocolate flavored chalk, put them in the freezer.
Because then they will taste like frozen chocolate chalk, which is somehow more palatable. Then feed most of them to your kids, who don't know better, and that way when they feed most of THAT to the dog, you won't mind.

6. Because I only have two tops that still cover my stomach, I have resorted to wearing a dress over pants today. The dress is a little too short to wear as a dress, in my opinion, but it's knit and very comfortable and doesn't leave my belly hanging out in a trashy way.
Hannah thinks this means we need to go to church. All day she has been saying, "That's a nice dress. Is it time for church? Should I put on MY dress now? What dress am I wearing to church?" etc. I guess she thinks of skirts as being regular day wear but DRESSES as being strictly for worship. Interesting.

7. If anyone local wants some Evening Primrose Oil capsules, let me know because I'm going to have some left over and they won't be good by the next time I'm pregnant.
I'm not trying to leave out non-local people, just I don't think it's worth the expense to ship 12ish capsules someplace.
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Thursday, December 18, 2008

40 Weeks

Sorry to everyone who flipped out when I didn't post yesterday. Believe me, when I have the baby I will let y'all know! Today is my official due date, and I'm still just sitting around at 2cm. I've been pretty dejected the past few days because I'm exhausted and everything hurts and I feel like I just want to leap out of my skin most of the time. I went overdue with Hannah and thought I was miserable, but I'm finding that with the third baby, everything is much more magnified! I wonder if symptoms continue to get more intense with every baby?

Anyway, today I talked with my doctor and we scheduled an induction for December 30. The hospital won't let you go past 42 weeks, and they also won't let any inductions be scheduled for the 31st or 1st due to the holiday, so the 30th is the latest possible date for me. In a strange way, it's very comforting to have an end date in mind, just to know I won't be pregnant forever! Meanwhile, I'm praying for grace and patience.

That's all the update I have for today, and hopefully my improved state of mind will help me think of some more interesting things to post tomorrow!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

The Week in Books 2008, No. 50

Rarely have I read a book as convicting as "Respectable Sins: Confronting the Sins We Tolerate" by Jerry Bridges. Bridges' thesis is that Christians are prone to congratulate ourselves for not sinning in "really bad" ways like the world around us, while overlooking the more socially acceptable ways we sin against God. Bridges uses Scripture to point to the fact that although we may overlook or write off certain sins, God does not, and our continuing to sin in respectable ways separates us from God and affects our witness to others. There were points in this book where I had to stop after every sentence to consider and pray over what was being discussed - it was that convicting. I would absolutely recommend this book to you, especially if you're in a situation or phase of life where you're mostly among other Christians or feeling pretty secure in your goodness. This book will probably make my top 15 for the year.

"That Hideous Strength" is the third in C.S. Lewis' space trilogy, although it takes place in England not in space. The book is the most obvious in it's spiritual implications, causing readers to think about what angels really might be like, how people choose between God and Satan, the process of thought that takes people down the road to evil, how ideas affect actions, and so on. I think the book can stand alone, although you'd likely enjoy it more if you've read the first two books in the trilogy, "Out of the Silent Planet" and "Perelandra." As I've mentioned before, I'm quite impressed with this trilogy, but then again it is C.S. Lewis.


Sorry to hit you with two book posts so close together, but I got to a late start last week and need to stay on track to finish the year!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Sovereignty

As I'm in the throes of (hopefully) the last days of this pregnancy, not sleeping and coping with aches and pains and desperation to GET THIS BABY OUT, I find myself needing to remember that God is sovereign and in control of all of my days, and that He knew Sarah's birthday before the beginning of time. I found this quote in Jerry Bridges' convicting book "Respectable Sins: Confronting the Sins We Tolerate":
Whatever your circumstances, and however difficult they may be, the truth is that they are ordained by God for you as part of His overall plan for your life. God does nothing, or allows nothing, without a purpose. And His purposes, however mysterious and inscrutable they may be to us, are always for His glory and our ultimate good.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

The Week in Books 2008, No. 49

"Cooking Among Friends" presents yet another approach to freezer cooking, this time suggesting assembling a group of friends who will each cook in bulk and then get together to exchange meals in the group. I thought the recipes in this book sounded good - especially if you don't like to do just casserole type meals all the time.

The drawback I could see to this method is that it seems like there is no real way to make it financially equal. The book presents various ideas for how to divvy up costs, but none of them really make sense if you're a bargain shopper, unless everyone else in your group is too. I like Monica's idea about everyone bringing their own meat etc a lot better in that respect.

Still, if you're interested in the whole freezer cooking party scenario, you might find some good ideas in this book.

Friday, December 12, 2008

The Weekly Seven Takes

1. Whipped cream icing gags me with a spoon.
I am a person who loves buttercream frosting. I am always so sorely disappointed to bite into a cake with that weak sauce whipped cream type icing that is barely sweet. Even worse is that colored gel stuff that gets used on cakes from grocery stores. That junk is grody to the max. The best frosting is the homemade Hershey chocolate frosting you make with butter and powdered sugar. If you've ever wondered why I'm not a naturally skinny person, now you have what we in the industry call "a clue."

2. If you find yourself afflicted with a sore throat while in Central Indiana, please call me for a lozenge.
Someday drugstores may stop paying me to take their merchandise home. Society may totally break down and people may have to pay for sore throat lozenges with wheelbarrows full of nearly worthless paper currency. When that day comes, I will be prepared with my thousands of lozenges and no one will laugh at me then! Meanwhile, if you need some lozenges, seriously, just let me know.

3. I think the word "lozenge" is really fun to say.
Try it. Lozenge. Lozenge. Lozenge. See? Who needs cable television????

4. My Fantasy Football team is on bye this week.
I'm pleased to report that the SnagToothDoomBunnies are having a great season, much better than their predecessor teams the PugnaciousDoomChiknz and the TinyLizardDoomWarriors. I think the secret is that this year I committed to NOT asking my husband for any advice. I just went by the projected stats. Also, I read the little notes and injury reports. In other words, it's better for me to have no skill or inside knowledge. Hey, at least I'm not picking things by color anymore.

5. I can't believe Vicky made it to The Biggest Loser finals.
Argh, she's so annoying! I wonder if when you actually know someone in real life and then they are on a reality show, you find out more about them, or if you're surprised by how awful they are, or what. I am normally not a fan of reality television, but I do love TBL.

6. We have been having a rocking good time dancing to Michael W. Smith's Christmas album.
Hannah and Jack love the Michael W. Smith Christmas album. It's one of my favorites too, and has been ever since I was in like 4th grade. Josh, however, you should know, uses "W. Smith" as an adjective to encompass all cheesy Christian music. We have been teaching the kids some great 80s dance moves to do to the music. I have to say, there are few things funnier than a toddler doing the Running Man. Unless it's my husband doing the Running Man. Or a 39 week pregnant woman like me doing the Running Man. We are a weird family, but we have fun together.

7. I am running really behind on Christmas projects.
Next time I plan to do a lot of crafty things for Christmas gifts, I am going to have to start working on them in July. I have delusions of grandeur when it comes to crafting, yes I do.
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Thursday, December 11, 2008

Thoughts on Thirty

I find it curious that so many people dread turning 30. I'm actually pretty excited to finally be 30 as of today. I think of people who are 30 somethings as being still young and energetic, but far more grounded and "together" than people in their 20s. I do know people in their 20s who are much more mature than people in their 30s, but perhaps they are the exceptions that prove the rule...

In any case, I'm looking forward to starting a new decade. Although my 20s were interesting and full and rewarding in many ways, they were also years of hard lessons and lots of tiresome quarter-life-crisis type "what does it all mean???" dithering about. I'm all for embracing the stage of life in which you find yourself; I've never seen the point of longing to be much older or younger than you actually are. So far I find there are pretty fascinating and exciting facets of every new era, as well as new challenges and difficulties. It's fun to imagine what sorts of things will happen and how I'll grow and change over the next 10 years. Here's to the 30s!

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Are You Getting Your Free Amazon or Starbucks Yet?

A very short while ago I signed up for the Swagbucks search engine, and now I have a free Amazon gift card winging it's way to me through the US Mail. I was incredulous at first, since usually this type of thing requires a lot of time for very little reward, but I have been pleasantly surprised by Swagbucks.

All you do is sign up and use Swagbucks to do your regular internet searches. I added Swagbucks to my search bar and use it for everything. The results are a mix of Google AND Ask.com, so you get a good result every time. You get points for signing up, for adding their search bar to your browser, and every time you search. If you do two or three searches a day, you'll get a $5 Amazon card in less than a month, or you could pass the idea along to your friends and get points for them signing up too, to get gift cards even faster.

You can redeem your points for other prizes beyond Amazon and Starbucks cards, but I think those are a good deal, since you only have to get 45 points to get a $5 Amazon card, or 50 points to get a $5 Starbucks card, and you can easily get to that amount in under a month.

If you'd like to give it a try, just sign up and start searching!

Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Twenty Great Christmas Books for Toddlers

Here, in no particular order, are twenty books we are enjoying this December. My children are almost 3 and 18 months, and so most of these books are on that level, however most of them would be enjoyable for kids younger or older as well. If you have other favorites, please feel free to share them in the comments section! I may do a follow-up post with more great books, because of how many we are still on the wait list for at the library.

I put a widget in my sidebar containing links to Amazon for all of these books. If you are considering purchasing any of them, please consider buying them through my link!

"Christmas in the City" is a cute story of a mouse couple whose tree home is cut down to be the Christmas tree in Rockefeller Center in New York City. The mice have fun exploring the city, but Mrs. Mouse is expecting babies, and on Christmas Eve the mice find a church and Mrs. Mouse delivers triplet mice in the manger scene! Various animals bring baby gifts, and eventually the Christmas tree is taken down and the mouse family finds a new home in the countryside, always remembering their special Christmas in the city. The illustrations in this book are sweet, with detailed borders painted around every scene. This book especially resonates with us this year as we're expecting a baby soon (HOPEFULLY!) too, although not triplets (HOPEFULLY!).

Margaret Wise Brown (who wrote two of our favorites, "Goodnight Moon" and "The Big Red Barn") wrote "Christmas in the Barn" in a similar form to her other books, but telling the story of the birth of Jesus. Caldecott Honor Artist Diane Goode (who also illustrated several other of our favorite books) did the wonderful pictures with especially well done animals in the barn. This is a very sweet and appealing book.


Although I'm not normally a big fan of simplified versions of books that are already geared toward children, "Christmas in the Big Woods," which is based on the Christmas section in Laura Ingalls Wilder's "Little House in the Big Woods," is a good book on its own merits. Hannah is already quite familiar with the story line, since we've read "Little House in the Big Woods" a few times for read aloud time, so it has been fun for her to see a more heavily illustrated version. Renee Graef, who did the illustrations, based her pictures heavily on the work of Garth Williams who illustrated the real Little House books, with his permission. Whenever I read the Little House descriptions of Christmas, I'm struck by how joyful they were about their simple and few presents, which I think is a good message for children, as well as being educational without beating them over the head with a historical message.

Cynthia Rylant (another excellent author whose books I recommend) wrote "Christmas in the Country" to tell the story of a girl who lives with her grandparents and builds wonderful memories of their simple celebration and traditions. Diane Goode (as I've mentioned, we love her illustrations) complements the story with excellent pictures full of detail and emotion.





"An Early American Christmas" is an interesting look at how Christmas traditions in New England were adapted and adopted from German immigrants. While informative, the book stays on a level a toddler can easily understand. Tomie dePaola's drawings are in a two dimensional, stylized form that you'll recognize from his other books, and the style fits well with the early American time period depicted in the story.




No Christmas book list could be complete without perennial favorite "How the Grinch Stole Christmas!" by Dr. Seuss. If your only exposure to this story is watching the cartoon on TV, you should read the book! Dr. Seuss uses his characteristic clever rhymes and expressive drawings to highlight the idea that Christmas is more than material things. Cindy Lou Who is so much cuter in the book, I don't really understand why they changed her character so much in the cartoon, but in any case, the book is much shorter than watching the cartoon, and better for kids' brains to boot.


We love Toot and Puddle, Holly Hobbie's cute and funny piglet characters. The stories are original and never tiresome, and the illustrations are really fantastic. In "I'll Be Home for Christmas" Toot has been in Scotland for a family reunion and is trying to get home in time for Christmas. Meanwhile, back at Woodcock Pocket, Puddle and Tulip (the parrot) scramble to get the preparations done. After caroling with sheep and trying to walk home in the snow all the way from Boston, Toot hitches a ride on a mysterious sleigh and makes it home just in time to celebrate with his friends. Again, the story is funny and unique and the illustrations make this a truly wonderful book.

In another Toot and Puddle adventure, "Let it Snow" follows the piglets as they try to come up with the perfect gifts to give each other and their cousin Opal. The piglets believe that the best presents are "a one-of-a-kind thingamajig, not just a whatsit anyone could buy in a store" so they head to their workshops and craft some inventive presents. Holly Hobbie's story is lots of fun, and her pictures are fabulous as usual!




Ezra Jack Keats added his wonderful illustrations to the traditional Christmas carol "The Little Drummer Boy" with great results. Keats has a unique style that incorporates a lot of texture and detail, which adds a lot of flavor and depth to the lyrics of the carol. The end of the book includes the music to the carol, in case you want to play it on the piano for your kids and don't have the music in some other form. We have this book as a board book, which is great for younger kids, but it's not abridged like so many board book versions of books, which I appreciate!

When Christmas arrives at the old house in Paris, covered with vines, the twelve little girls in two straight lines are all sick, except for Madeline. Curiously, they apparently had no plans to go home for the holidays, but were instead stuck at boarding school with Miss Clavel. At any rate, Madeline was taking care of everyone when a mysterious rug merchant showed up and gave all the girls a magic carpet they could use to go home for Christmas. "Madeline's Christmas" is an unusual story, but that's what makes the Madeline books so interesting!



In "Only a Star" a little girl asks her father what decorations there were in the stable when Jesus was born. This unique book then answers by showing how the common everyday scenery around the manger was made beautiful by the birth of Christ. For example, the light of the Christmas star falling on a spider web makes sparkling jewels. The end of the book includes some notes on the various animals mentioned in the story, if they were mentioned in the Bible, or if they have traditionally been associated with the Nativity and so on. The illustrations in this book are really great and convey the landscape and animals particularly well.

"The Year of the Perfect Chrismtas Tree" is a sweet story of how an Appalachian community celebrates Christmas with much sacrifice during the First World War. Although kids will learn a lot about the time period and location from reading this book, the history doesn't distract from the excellent story in any way. Barbara Cooney (who also illustrated "Miss Rumphius" and other great books) illustrated the book and her pictures add much detail and context to the text.



We're reading "A Pioneer Christmas" for our read-aloud book this month. The book alternates short chapters about how a pioneer family with Scottish roots prepares for and celebrates Christmas with their community, with short sections explaining the history and detail of how pioneers lived in 1841, and how-to instructions for crafts, recipes, and games kids can play that are like those the pioneers enjoyed. I should mention that I find it sort of irritating that the author persists in calling the pioneer community "the backwoods" as though it was just the sticks and not the frontier, but other than that I think it's a good book. Some of the crafts and games are a little over my kids' heads this year, but I think we'll make a pomander, and maybe try one of the recipes.

"Snowmen at Christmas" is a fun and imaginative rhyming book wherein a little boy imagines the neighborhood snowmen getting together while everyone sleeps to celebrate Christmas together, including snow cookies, dancing, and singing "songs about snow and the birth of a King." The story is such a fun concept, and the pictures are great, with lots of detail and color and humor.





Although not technically a Christmas story, I included "Snowmen at Night" because it's about winter and is festive. Much like "Snowmen at Christmas," "Snowmen at Night" follows the imaginary adventures of a bunch of snowmen (and snow-mamas and snow-babies and snow-dogs) who get together to drink cold cocoa and play snowmen games and go ice skating and all sorts of fun things. The illustrations for this book are hilarious. I love the pictures of the snowmen picking up their pieces and hauling their friends home on toboggans after snow game injuries!

Another book not about Christmas but perfect for this time of year is "The Snowy Day" by Ezra Jack Keats. The little boy in the story has a grand time playing outside in the snow, and the illustrations have a cool 1960s feel with lots of texture an