Thursday, July 17, 2008

Why does God allow bad things to happen?


I always stayed away from religious discussions before I was born again.

However since I became born again, I have been more open to listening to the questions of those that are searching.

The most common question that is withholding people from putting their hearts at the cross is "Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people?"

This is generally in reference to the violence in South Africa and worldwide. The consensus is that if God is almighty and powerful, He should be able to stop the baddies in their tracks. If He loves us so much, why does He not listen to our prayers?

These are some of the misperceptions that cause unbelief amongst those that are yet to be born again.

I have spent a lot of time praying and looking for the answers and finally the Holy Spirit has answered my questions and I want to relay them to you in my own humble way.

God wants to prosper and not to harm us.

As a born again individual, we have the Holy Spirit as our Comforter and Protector whenever we may need Him. The Holy Spirit is a gentleman and only comes into our hearts when we invite Him in. When He is present no harm will come our way.

Unfortunately we do not always walk with the Holy Spirit inside us and we allow satan to steal from and rob us and destroy what is ours, which is his way of causing distrust and boy, is he good at it!

It is very much like a parent/child relationship where your kids make you angry but you still love them.

Imagine your teenagers going to wild parties where you are not invited to and cannot protect them and then they get wild drunk and do things that they should not which cause them harm. It is the same in our Father/child relationship with God.

Think about it: we do stuff that chases the Spirit out, we do not repent and then expect God to protect us when we are in a place we should not be? (Be that a physical / emotional / spiritual place).

The only thing you can do is to be sure to walk with the Spirit at all times (takes practice!), ask, believe and receive and be thankful.




Sowing and reaping


Churches speak about tithing all the time. Tithing is when we bring the first 10% of our earnings to God. That money belongs to God, but He wants to see that we are faithful, that is why He does not just keep His 10%

Everything we have belongs to God and when we give, we are richly blessed.

Besides tithing there are other ways for us to give:

Offering – when we give money over and above the tithe

Sowing – when you give of your time, money or belongings

We often give money and hope the church appropriates the money correctly and that is the last thought we give the matter.

The spirit in which we give is almost more important than what we actually give. You must give not so that you can receive, but knowing that your seed will be blessed and used to further God’s Kingdom.

Your fruit will be returned to you and God will meet you at your point of need. For instance, He may not give you money to join a medical aid, but He will keep you healthy so that you will not need a medical aid.




Miracles

When people spoke of miracles, my logic used to protest – it is coincidence, it would have happened that way either way; it is the positive thoughts and law of attraction… Let us face it, we will find an explanation for everything if we think about it hard enough.

The truth is that the way God made our minds to be so enquiring and intelligent in itself is a miracle – can you even try to make man with body, mind and soul, so intricate and involved and yet so perfect?

Yes, I have seen absolute miracles in my life.

After believing for 10 years that I have failed matric, I found out that despite all the odds against me, I have in fact passed! Praise God!

My little boy was brought back from death when he was about 3 and half years old, before we were born again. John-Ross was sick with flu, which caused him to choke on a piece of food. His eyes rolled back in his head and he became unconscious. Wade tried to revive him with CPR, but it did not work. The little boy was lying on the floor, blue in the face from lack of oxygen to the brain. We thought we had lost him when we started praying to God – amazing how we put Him in charge of our lives when we have no other option. Suddenly, John-Ross sat up weakly and vomited, the piece of food dislodged. He has been fine ever since with no damage to his brain or any other part of his body.

So many prayers of healing have been answered in our lives, one of the most recent being little Debbie, when she came down with something. At first she was very tired and sleepy and then developed a fever. We had only enough money for food, but she became sicker with her temperature rising rapidly and she started vomiting. She did not eat for about 3 days. We were by her bedside, praying and trying to find out what was wrong with her. She had no pain, but people said that meningitis was doing the rounds. Meningitis is a disease that causes infection of the meninges, the thin lining that surrounds the brain and the spinal cord and could cause death.

On the third day she was even more weak and sleepy and we decided to stop the lip service of praying, but not putting our trust in God. We took our last bit of money and took her for a check-up. She had an ear infection and received antibiotics. When she arrived back home she was much better already, but she had not had her medicine yet! God wanted to see our faith and because we obeyed, he saved our baby and blessed our finances!

Speaking of financial blessings, God uses people to be a financial blessing unto you. Money does not necessarily fall out of the sky, but our God is super-natural!

We like to meditate on Ephesians 3: 20 daily: “Now glory be to God who by his mighty power at work within us is able to do far more than we would ever dare to ask or even dream of – infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts or hopes.

Another miracle happened when we were unable to pay our rent, it was already past due and the proprietor called on the Saturday to say that it had to be paid by the Monday. We had no money at all, but we spoke in faith when we said: “No problem, we will have money on Monday.

On Monday Wade called a client to discuss something when she said the following: “Wade, I hope I did not offend you, but I deposited R3000 into your bank account to use as you wish. ” This lady had no idea about our situation, but when God spoke to her she acted and she will be richly blessed for that.

We had other blessings happen of physical nature, such as food and clothing and toys for the children. Our aim is to become a blessing unto others and especially to those who have blessed us.

I always felt very ashamed of accepting blessings for fear that it may inconvenience those who bless us. God has since revealed to me that when others bless us, they will be blessed in turn.


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