Tuesday, December 30, 2008

A Little Validation

Sometimes we say or do things and have no real idea about the consequences of our actions. The link here is to a great short film by T.J. Thyne (the curly haired brilliant lab professor on the hit TV series “Bones”), who is a talented actor and has created a fantastic piece of work. This video is 16 minutes 32 seconds or so, and a great insight into the impact that we can have on others through our approach to life, and language.

Actually, I have included it in two links; depending on where you live and your connection, one might be a bit faster than the other.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao

http://www.tjthyne.com/home/index.php?location=home

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Ah, the after sales

A new year is looming – and January must be get organized month, because the stores are filling the aisles with totes and plastic organizers that you can cram all your stuff into. I kind of chuckle at the clever marketing of this. As the Christmas shopping winds down and the displays get smaller, the toys and boxes of chocolate are replaced by the totes that organize your holiday stuff – round bins for wreathes, special dividers to keep your tree ornaments organized, the tall skinny ones that hold your rolls of wrapping paper upright, then we get into the sweater holders, and the big truck sized ones for all of that other stuff. Is this why houses are getting bigger; to accommodate the things that spend the majority of the year in containers and cardboard boxes of one sort or another?
When I moved last fall, the movers were grumbling about how much stuff that I have. I finally had to tell them to stop whining and just get on with it. I think that a big part of the problem was that, although I can get rid of most things with no difficulty, I do hang on to my books. Not the books I have written of course – those I want to sell and get out to the world at large. It’s the books that I collect that become rather heavy when packed into a small box. I remember reading somewhere (!), that Sagittarians are known for being readers and surrounding themselves with books. I wouldn’t say that I am surrounded exactly, and I did do a major trimming down a couple of years ago including relieving myself of a lot of textbooks and non-fiction work related to finishing my PhD. I do still have a lot of books though. They are kind of spread through the flat, but if you were to stack them all together, well, there’d be a few. And I like reading in bed into the wee hours, so reading stuff off my laptop is just not convenient. This proclivity for books is not just mine either. My 20-year old daughter has a collection that is just about busting the seams of her room. She loves to read, and once she discovers an author, she likes to read a lot of their stuff. A friend of mine at university created her own bookshelves by stacking bricks she liberated from a construction site, laying a plank on top of them for a shelf, stacking more bricks, another plank. That bookshelf was sturdy as could be, despite the absence of screws or nails.
So, although the stores will do their best to sell me a bunch of totes, I do not need any. In fact, things are pretty well organized around here right now. There will be a little re-configuring when oldest daughter moves in a couple of weeks, but nothing really major. Hmm, nothing to organize. No excuses for procrastinating. Must be time to get back to work on that book.

P.S. I still have copies of Wake Up Women BE if you’d like to order a signed copy for you or perhaps some fantastic person that you know.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Christmas Blessings

From somewhere on the edges of Halifax, Nova Scotia, we’re off celebrating Christmas today in the best ways possible. Family, fellowship, music and, of course, it wouldn’t be Christmas without the food. Turkey, ham and plenty of trimmings plus a wee bit of spiked eggnog.
Cheers!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Wishes

The stars shine brightly over the world tonight, as Christians gather to celebrate in a world that is vastly changed from the one that existed when Jesus was born, and yet in many ways remains the same. We hold one another up, find joy, sing, meditate and pray. We fall down, get back up, and sometimes hinder one another. How we choose to live each day is as individual a thing as each of us are.
However you choose to spend this time of the year, may you find peace and everlasting light.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Christmas in my heart


Christmas is really close, and I am missing my family back home as I write this and am remembering previous gatherings. Smells of turkey and sausage stuffing float on the air, competing with a waft of nutmeg being grated onto freshly made eggnog. Music playing in the background might be off the stereo, or one of us having a turn at the piano, a flute, or just whistling in the kitchen. These are my favourite parts of Christmas, if I really get down to it; the smells and sounds of family and friends close by to celebrate. Something about being a part of creating a meal – usually in a crowded kitchen as everyone does their part in getting things ready – for people that I love, and getting the mix of smells and sound just right really makes Christmas for me.
This year will be my smallest Christmas dinner ever; just me and my girls, but it’ll be lovely all the same. We’ll be thinking of family and friends back home and all over the world, and celebrating the meaning of Christmas itself.
In celebration of the birth of our saviour, and the fellowship that comes from sharing this special time together in groups small or large, I wish you a very Merry Christmas. With love, music and good food for everyone.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Picked up at the grocery store?

So there I was looking over the chicken at the grocery store trying not to gasp aloud at the price, and doing my best surreptitious glancing around to spot the “club packs” and get one before anyone else does. There are never that many of them around and at least it saves a couple of dollars that way. Also looking, for something, is a gentleman named Stewart, who says hello and chats about the state of groceries and shopping in general. I return the conversation in kind; I’m polite like that. He is looking at me quite intently, then tells me that I am beautiful. I thank him simply; I am no longer a youngster who says “oh no, I am not” when someone pays me a compliment. Inside though, I am glad that I put on some makeup before leaving home. I don’t always do that when going out for groceries.
Encouraged in this way, he asks if I am married. No, I reply. Not married anymore. He very quickly tells me that he lives nearby and would love to go to dinner or a movie or something. Would I be interested? No, I politely answer. I am really flattered to be asked, but not dating or looking to date, thanks. He wants my number anyway, he says, in case I change my mind in a few months. Coffee perhaps, in the Spring. I thank him again for being so sweet, and meander off to finish my shopping with a light heart.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

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